We are an offline BDSM organization created by Female Dominants, for Female Dominants, to promote camaraderie amongst ourselves, no matter the label: Domme, Top, Mistress, Dominatrix, the gender neutral form of "Master" or FemDom.

F.A.D. is also for those submissive to them, slaves to them, bottoms to them, or just for those who admire, worship and seek Female Dominants. F.A.D. is a wonderful place to meet other like-minded individuals in the lifestyle in North Carolina. We welcome both those in established relationships and those seeking to find someone new, but we are not a "hookup" service.

This organization was created in the Summer of 2002 to fill a need we saw in the BDSM community of North Carolina.

It is our vision to promote and protect Female Dominants and those that serve them, by conducting our organization and ourselves in a safe, sane and consensual manner. By incorporating education, communication and camaraderie within FAD, we will further support the Leather Community as a responsible and innovative Female Dominants' Organization. We hold monthly meetings, orientations, demos, presentations, and social events all in a safe, sane, consensual, fun and friendly atmosphere. In addition, we have an online forum for open discussion between like-minded individuals.

What To Bring

F.A.D. does not provide any implements or toys for play.  Therefore, if you anticipate wanting to play, remember to bring your toy bag! Never touch or use another person's toys  without specific permission from that person.  Also, you might want to bring your own blanket for aftercare. If you are nude and wish to sit down, please have a towel, blanket or other barrier to place under yourself.

Most important things to bring: A sense of humor, common courtesy and your imagination!

Socials Menu

Prohibited Play

Regardless of the venue, FAD never allows:

  • Play involving those under 21 years of age
  • Play involving animals
  • Scat (feces) play
  • Firearm/gun play, or play involving realistic firearm replicas

General Rules

  • You must be over 21 to attend, no exceptions!
  • Each person attending will read and sign a waiver of liability if you have not already done so.  We renew our waivers annually. 
  • No drugs or alcohol will be allowed during the FAD party.
  • No guns or firearms or authentic replicas of firearms will be allowed.
  • All play must be Safe, Sane and Consenual between all parties.
  • Smoking will be permitted in designated areas only (generally outside).
  • No pictures or cameras allowed unless express permission has been granted by the FAD Officers and all parties in the photo have granted consent as well. Please respect the privacy and need for discretion of others.
  • No prostitution, solicitation or negotiation for sexual services will  be tolerated. This is illegal! We welcome pro-Dommes in our organization, but their attendance at FAD must be social in nature and not part of any paid client session.
  • The DM (Dungeon Monitor) must have access to all scenes/play. Doors must be left open to all play areas. Generally the Officers of FAD will be sharing DM duty at our events. You may always contact any FAD Officer at any time if you have questions or concerns. If safety or adherence to rules appear to not be in accordance, a FAD DM has ultimate power to temporarily suspend and or permanently stop any scene.
  • Improper behavior at the event will be addressed by the Officers.
  • Have fun, even if it hurts! 

Join us and experience why this is the best, most unique Female Dominant Groups in the southeast!