Social Etiquette

Behavior at a F.A.D. Social is relatively simple and based on common courtesy and generally accepted BDSM public play etiquette:

  • Do not interfere with a scene or join in without being asked.
  • Do not invade the space needed by the participants of the scene, but  feel free to watch.
  • Please keep conversation, laughter and comments to a minimum in any play area. You can talk with the participants after their play and aftercare time is finished, if you would like to ask questions or comment on what you saw.
  • Remember to always clean up after any scene. It is expected that you will wipe clean any play equipment or furniture you used with the cleaning supplies provided.


Remember basic protocol please, submissives, which means be on your best behavior and respectful to everyone at ALL times. You can't go wrong referring to the Ladies as Ma'am until and unless instructed otherwise, but it is not required that you do so. Dominant Ladies, make yourselves approachable for the success and camaraderie of our events, or even be the initiator of conversations with new fellow FemDoms and new submissives. There will definitely be new people unsure of how to fit in at each party - It's every member's responsibility to make it easy for them to feel comfortable and let them see why we love F.A.D. so much!

What To Bring

F.A.D. does not provide any implements or toys for play.  Therefore, if you anticipate wanting to play, remember to bring your toy bag! Never touch or use another person's toys  without specific permission from that person.  Also, you might want to bring your own blanket for aftercare. If you are nude and wish to sit down, please have a towel, blanket or other barrier to place under yourself.

Most important things to bring: A sense of humor, common courtesy and your imagination!

Socials Menu

Prohibited Play

Regardless of the venue, FAD never allows:

  • Play involving those under 21 years of age
  • Play involving animals
  • Scat (feces) play
  • Firearm/gun play, or play involving realistic firearm replicas

General Rules

  • You must be over 21 to attend, no exceptions!
  • Each person attending will read and sign a waiver of liability if you have not already done so.  We renew our waivers annually. 
  • No drugs or alcohol will be allowed during the FAD party.
  • No guns or firearms or authentic replicas of firearms will be allowed.
  • All play must be Safe, Sane and Consenual between all parties.
  • Smoking will be permitted in designated areas only (generally outside).
  • No pictures or cameras allowed unless express permission has been granted by the FAD Officers and all parties in the photo have granted consent as well. Please respect the privacy and need for discretion of others.
  • No prostitution, solicitation or negotiation for sexual services will  be tolerated. This is illegal! We welcome pro-Dommes in our organization, but their attendance at FAD must be social in nature and not part of any paid client session.
  • The DM (Dungeon Monitor) must have access to all scenes/play. Doors must be left open to all play areas. Generally the Officers of FAD will be sharing DM duty at our events. You may always contact any FAD Officer at any time if you have questions or concerns. If safety or adherence to rules appear to not be in accordance, a FAD DM has ultimate power to temporarily suspend and or permanently stop any scene.
  • Improper behavior at the event will be addressed by the Officers.
  • Have fun, even if it hurts! 

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