…. and have been an active member of the kink community for more than 20 years, first in Boston, MA and now in Raleigh, NC along with my life partner and pony, Danny/Coconut. I have had the privilege of speaking at a variety of venues about pony play and other topics, and participating in pony-related regional competitions and events with Coconut and other Wingnut ponies for many years.
…. co-owner of Wingnut Stables, a private facility in central NC that specializes in indoor and outdoor BDSM play, especially pony play, and is host to several large unique themed parties each year. If you would like to find out more about Wingnut Stables please join the Wingnut Stables group on FetLife or feel free to send me a private message.
…. always open to opportunities to make new friends and have some good conversation. Want to get to know me? Come to a community event and introduce yourself! Just be advised that I am currently NOT looking for cybersex partners, puppy dogs, stalkers, barely literate penpals, do-me bottoms or 'a real man to get me in-touch with my submissive side'. If you are one of these and would like to be placed on the list to be notified when any of this changes, please feel free to send me your email address.
….a dabbler in a lot of things, master of nothing. I am not so arrogant as to believe that I do not have something to learn from every person and from each new experience, even about things with which I have a great deal of experience. At the very least you can serve as a bad example. ;) There is always room for discovery and improvement so if you can help me out with that, I'm all ears!
…. a dominant, but I am not YOUR dominant, so do not treat me as though I am until I have given you permission to do so. I do however expect to be treated respectfully and politely as you would anyone else. I do not ascribe to any theory of disparity between the genders and believe that power exchange roles are complementary, not unequal. I am human, same as you. Treat me as such.